WEEK 3 · SITUATION FOCUS

Day Twenty

Words that hold the door open

Sometimes it’s not the intention that’s missing, it’s the words. A few ready phrases can carry you through a hard moment.

An open door
NOTICE
What is this moment saying to me?
PAUSE
Wait to take in the moment.
RESPOND
What response does this moment need?

HOW TO DO THIS → FULL METHOD

TODAY’S NOTICING

Try one of these today, if it fits: ‘What I’m hearing is… did I get that right?’ or ‘I reacted. Let me try that again more thoughtfully.’ Notice what shifts when you say it.